Instead, stick to the big four:, POF.com,, and OKCupid(to a lesser extent).

The question is, where do you go to find them? For now, niche sites that cater to the gay dating market are not your friend. Now that the government isn’t telling people who they can and cannot marry, there’s been a huge explosion of gay men who are opening themselves up to the idea of something more. Interestingly, as the courts came around, I started to notice a big jump in the amount of gay men who were coming to ProfileHelper seeking an online dating coach that could help them find a date or potential husband. In 2013, we saw some pretty major court cases that changed the game for same sex marriages and relationships, and the recognition they can and should receive. Sadly, it will probably be a few years before they come around, but that doesn’t mean this isn’t a great time for gay men who are looking for the love of their life to get online. Sites like Manhunt and apps like Grindr are pretty much what the industry has to offer. The online dating industry puts very little effort into gay dating sites that do anything more than just help men connect for casual relationships. It can be really hard to be a gay man looking for a serious relationship online.